There is long time not writing chinese, either in work or leisure time. I suspect I am still equipped with chinese writing skill, and believe continuous practice would sharpen my skill (next time sin la).

Recently I discover I am the one who put career lower than love. Career stands at the second place while the remaining would be friends and family. This is distant from what I am used to consciously say, since which may call people 'discriminating' yourself. At the same time, behaviour of friends surrounding me align with what I now believe. Career is somewhat the tools for a better life. It strengthens my thought. That's really turn my life changing also, sleep earlier. I live happier than before, feel the achievement of accomanying with my partner. I have been establishing an unique kind of communication with her such as jargon and style with less barriers, an shared vision,  respect. All are backed up by every experience.

The change is supported by my self-dialogue, peers effect, emotionalised action, injection of new belief. It can be an example of self-hypnosis.